Diane W. Bailey

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What God has Joined

In the beginning she was my mother-in-law, a feisty women who did not take “no” for an answer. She and her husband raised seven boys.

I watch her flow in and out of sleep.

I did not just lose a husband in the divorce, I lost a family.

When the two become one, the oneness is more than the marriage bed,  and children, it is extended family.

And what God joined together, can it ever really become asunder?

I look at my children, the one-ness still exists.

God in His wisdom and mercy allows divorce but from the beginning it was never to be this way.  Marriage is a refection of our one-ness with God.  We are the bride.

Yet in this fallen world it does exist, and the pain and sorrow causes us to struggle at times with the love of the Bridegroom.

I would scream, “How could you let this happen?  I am your child!”

He held me…and I cried… years ago.

I touch her hand, so soft, and smile-remembering.

I remember her waking me at two a.m. to go shrimping.  We threw out the Jim Dandy dog food as bait.  “They like this stuff”, she would say.

She taught me to cast the net, and cast the net, and cast the net, until a half-dollar shape was formed on my release.

As the sun rose we pickup the bucket full of shrimp, a few crabs and fish, returning to the house.  They would be used in the gumbo the next day.  She teaches me to make the gumbo; it takes two days to make gumbo.

Several years ago, God in his mercy and love, has restored the friendship.  The father of my children and I talk about our children and grandchildren.

My husband is called their friend…only God could do such a thing…only God.

She was my mother-in-law, she is my friend, and I am so grateful.

Joining with Ann at Mulitudes on Monday, Playdates with God, Hear it on Sunday, Use it on Monday, House Upon A Rock

  • http://gravatar.com/susanrstilwell Susan Stilwell

    What a precious story. Yes, it’s amazing the way God, and ONLY GOD, can take broken things and make them whole.

    • http://dianewbailey.wordpress.com dianewbailey

      Yes, Susan His is the only one…the One and Only

  • victoria

    I think this is such a beautiful moment!!! Ty for sharing.

    • http://dianewbailey.wordpress.com dianewbailey

      Thank you, Victoria.

  • Terrie Atchison

    How very precious, this beautiful tiny “Rose”. We thank God for the blessing and gift that some people are to us….no matter how we became connected to them in the first place.

    • http://dianewbailey.wordpress.com dianewbailey

      Amen Teri, Amen

  • http://lisanotes.blogspot.com Lisa notes

    What a blessing that you were able to sit with your m-i-l. Yes, divorce has so many ripples that rip right through a family, but I’m glad you have this relationship still.

    • http://dianewbailey.wordpress.com dianewbailey

      Thank you , Lisa. God is so good.

  • http://www.ahouseupontherock.com Trish @ A House Upon The Rock

    What a beautiful picture of His redemption in our lives. Something only He can do.

    Thank you for sharing this with us.

    • http://dianewbailey.wordpress.com dianewbailey

      Thank you Trish for the kind words, and thank you for stopping by Life Images, Hope to meet again!

  • http://daybydayinourworld.com Laura O in AK

    What a beautiful story and great reminder that marriage joins more than husband and wife together.

    • http://dianewbailey.wordpress.com dianewbailey

      Yes indeed, Laura. Thank you for stopping by Life Images!

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